✅ 11 – Leaving Family
Getting ready to go, I struggled with the concept of Home Base. Of not being Home Base for our family while living and traveling in our RV. The worry of not being there for my kids, with no place for them to visit, or to stay, if needed.
We have three grown and nearly-grown kids: ages 28, 25 & 22. And, truth be told, they’re all over the U.S. right now, too, in their careers, and relationships, and school: Hawaii, Missouri, and Washington State.
No grandbabies yet (and that might change everything, right?). This is a time in our lives when our kids don’t need us, or necessarily want us around full time, for a few years, especially after the two years of close living with our college student.
It was hard to prepare for this. I cried a lot in those last 60 days, saying goodbye to family and friends in Washington, during the pandemic, when we couldn’t even get together, anyway.
But I learned some things in the last two years on the road, and I’m reassured to discover we’re closer, in some ways, by traveling the country full time in our big RV:
- We’ve actually seen our loved ones — our kids, extended family, and friends — more now than we would have at home in Seattle. Even the Hawaii kid, who came and stayed with us for a week for a wedding in Atlanta! (We rented an AirBnB, while Charlie-the-RV was in for service at NIRVC – Atlanta.)
- With everybody’s busy lives and schedules, and the difficulties of air travel recently, it’s easier for us to travel in the RV and stop in to see our people all over the country. We stay at a campground nearby and it works out great!
- Thank goodness for technology and the good old-fashioned telephone, er, cellphone, for connection.
- We’ve enjoyed Zoom holidays, check-ins, and fun family game nights from four different time zones.
- Every Sunday, I text a proof of life picture to our kids and let them know where we’re staying.
The kids are all okay. And we are, too.